In the first 20 or so min. of the Dividing Line with James White, on January 16th, '07 he talks for a while about the misconception of people's view of God in relationship to us and his desire for our salvation. It makes pretty clear that most churches in America "share" the gospel in a way that makes God look like a weak and desperate God. Truth be told, I too have been guilty of sharing the gospel this way in the past. Let's all be resolved not to from now on though, ok? I quit, you can to!
Click on the following link and find the show for Jan. 16th and click on the link there to listen.